Not a Has-Been, but a Will-Be: Bacall, Bogey & New Year’s Resolutions
I am not a has-been. I am a will be. – Lauren Bacall
I’m not really one for New Year’s resolutions.
I used to be. I used to wish each year for the proverbial fifteen-pound-weight loss. I used to dream of flawless skin. I used to lust after better clothes or easier-to-manage hair.
But that’s all those things really turned out to be – wishes, dreams, and jealousies.
Some years, I was extra-determined. I had a plan. The plan would work. I would get what I wanted. And everyone else would look at me and say, hey, look at you!
Except the plan never worked. All the things you have to do in order to be skinnier and look better require powerful, long-term, daily-accessible motivation.
And what I look like on the outside was just never enough motivation. Read more